How Being Her and The New Rules Helped Me Find My Person — And Why I’ll Never Settle Again

The Shift I Didn't Know I Needed

There’s something powerful about hearing the right voice at the right time.For me, that voice was Margarita Nazarenko — and her podcast Being Her was the exact wake-up call I didn’t know I needed.

I was tired of cycles. Tired of questioning my worth. Tired of dimming my light in hopes that someone else would finally see me. But Margarita? She saw me — and helped me see myself again.

Discovering the Podcast That Spoke to My Soul

I found Being Her in a season of confusion — and instantly felt like I was being mentored by the big sister I never had. Margarita doesn’t just talk about dating. She talks about identity. Self-respect. Feminine power. Standards. Legacy.

Each episode peeled back a layer I didn’t realize was blocking me from the love (and life) I truly wanted. I stopped feeling desperate to be chosen, and started becoming more selective about who I was allowing into my energy.

The Book That Changed the Game: The New Rules

Then I read her book.

Let me be clear: this book is not just for women who are dating.It’s for any woman who wants to reconnect with her worth, her power, and her boundaries.

New Rules taught me how to move with elegance, protect my energy, and attract without chasing. It helped me stop operating from survival mode and start walking like I was already her — the highest version of myself.

Meeting My Person — and Knowing I Chose Him from Alignment

Applying her guidance changed my entire dating mindset. I moved differently. I trusted myself more. I stopped settling for “potential” and started expecting partnership.

And now? I’ve found my person.

He’s not perfect — but he shows up, meets me where I’m at, and makes me feel safe in a way I used to only dream about.

And the most beautiful part?

If it doesn’t work out, I know I’ll be okay. Because I now have the tools to walk away with peace, grace, and self-respect — and to begin again without losing myself.

This Book Belongs on Every Woman’s Shelf

Whether you’re single, dating, in a situationship, married, or in a season of rediscovery, The New Rules is a must-read.

It’s not just a dating book. It’s a guide to becoming untouchably confident, rooted in your standards, and beautifully magnetic — just by being fully you.

And Margarita? If you're reading this — you're getting a wedding invite. You were part of this journey, and I’ll never stop being grateful.

Your Turn to Become Her

So if you’ve been feeling stuck, drained, or like you’ve forgotten who you are — this is your sign.

✨ Start with the book: The New Rules by Margarita Nazarenko🎧 Then binge her podcast: Being Her💖 And start becoming the version of you who doesn’t settle — for anything.

Because once you remember your worth… everything changes.